People Time

Hey Kids,

I have a deadline running up on me.

June 28th is the date to release the second book of the Porter Rockwell Series. It may be self-imposed but it still remains important. I have so much work to do. I wonder if I’ll really make it.

I’m not complaining. I love doing it. And I love the pressure. But today I had to let it go. I took this afternoon off and spent it with my brother instead. We had dinner, talked, and hung out.4564135255_23e3aee2ac211211211111111111111111111111111111121111111111

Did I make any progress on the book? Not directly, but I feel refreshed and ready to get after it tomorrow. In return, I can now expect his help; I’ll need the encouragement and the support when I hole away later.

Special people in our lives are worth our time. They’re worth pushing ourselves a little harder because we spent time with them. They’re worth being in our lives.

Goals are great, but so are people.

 

Day 73

Signs

Hey Kids,

I have two conflicting weaknesses in life.

1) I hate signs. Signs are everywhere and after a while we just ignore them anyway. Signs are a sign that too many people think they can tell you what to do. In my opinion.

2) I do dumb things. I’m not really a safety guy. How I’m still alive, I’m not too sure. I’ve made it to 48 (still have a few weeks to say that) and haven’t died yet, but I keep trying.

That all being said, this sign is one I would heed.Warning sign of the century award goes to...

Don’t be afraid to live and learn every once and a while.

 

Day 71

Out There

Hey Kids,

To go where nobody is. That’s what I wanted. Where would you go? We headed west. West of the Salt Lake Valley, west of the next valley and into the valleys yet further west again. Out there lies vast open desert where people are as scarce as the water.IMG_20150502_201930_977-1

Once leaving the city of Tooele (Pronounced To-will-a), the traffic took a sharp drop off on the darkening Saturday night. When we turned off from the two lane highway just north of the small town of Vernon, the traffic and the daylight had disappeared altogether. And when the pavement ended, we were on own from then on.

The dry, graded, oft washboard-rattling, dirt road, following the path of the 1860’s Pony Express, climbed to Look Out Pass. Ironically, although in yesteryear the 10-day mail delivery service brought revolutionary communication to the country, once past Look Out Pass, all cell service ends.

The moon rose high and full and provided plenty of light beyond our headlights. We dodged many daredevil Jack Rabbits that challenged our speed with last minute sprints across the roadway. A pair of Antelope watched us drive by with limited but cautious interest. We remarked that with the entire desert in which to run, why hang around the road side?

We crawled up and over the last pass of the Dugway Mountains, crossing at the same place the Ponies, stage coaches and the Lincoln Highway all shared through time. Marks remain visible on the hillside during the daytime, if you know for what to look. We descended into the last valley, the clock pressing hard against the midnight hour.

IMG_20150503_101031_913Our favorite place to camp, lies nestled between two hills of the west side of the Dugway Mountains. A little piece of our own paradise. Armed with only a small two wheel lane road, mostly overgrown with sage brush, a dry wash bed and a lone Juniper Tree, the place would catch the attention of few. But it’s our place and we love it there.

We set up camp by setting out our two lawn chairs, unrolling our sleeping bags onto them and climbing in. Over our head the sky entertained us with stars playing hide-and-seek in the cloud windows that drifted, shifted and blew along. We ourselves drifted off to sleep sometime around 1am. The air cooled to necessitate a beanie cap but out bodies were plenty warm. The only sound- the gust of breezes that always occupy the night and changing of the guard of air temperatures.

The morning brought the warming sun rise, ham and eggs, and pan toasted homemade Sourdough bread. We relaxed and enjoyed what the Sabbath Morning offered to us. I climbed to the top of the north-bordering hill for the first time ever.IMG_20150503_095557_873

I learned that the post I could see half way up, most likely was a mining claim. The summit reveled a man-made pile of large rocks, indicating I was not the first to climb it. I also found a Tunnel Web spinning spider that did not show any fear to try to shew me away from its trapping grounds. I admit, I was more afraid of it then it of me.IMG_20150503_100159_549

We packed the truck, checked the Kayaks still tied to the top. I knew if anyone should see us, the look of a 4Runner carrying Kayaks across the middle of the dry, ancient lake bed would seem pretty comical. The layers of dust built up on the boats even seemed ridiculous to me.

We passed some rock hounds with Colorado and Utah plates, digging along the road. They gave us a curious look over as we passed and offered a friendly wave. They had geodes to find and didn’t waste too much time to figure out what Kayaks were doing in the desert.

Back onto the Pony Express trail and another 30-40 miles brought us to our oasis, the Fish Springs Wildlife Refuge. A single car parked at the picnic area was the only human life we saw. We drove out along one of the levees that form the waterfowl ponds filled by the natural spring. We untied our IMG_20150503_115652_716 (1)Kayaks and paddled out into our own private tour of the waterways that few ever see.

The birds nesting in the weeds did not express their love for us, but sang at us the whole time. Almost the whole trip, the songs of birds filled our ears. In a lifeless desert, it amazes me the amount of teeming life that never got the message.

We paddled to and around the many islands. We saw ducks, the “Royal Coot Navy Flotilla”, and countless number of other birds. We drifted with our feet dangling into the water. We explored a few back bays, and occasionally caught a ride on the gusts of wind. If you eliminated the surrounding brown, rock-faced mountains with near no vegetation, I would have believed we were exploring marshes boarding thick tropical forests.FullSizeRender_19

A few cars passed, doing their tour of the levees and looking at the ponds from the edges as we had done on previous trips. We laughed and thought how they must’ve seen us out there on the water and dreamed how fun it must be. The percentage of people that will ever venture out to that remote refuge is only dwarfed by the number of people who will also pack their boats to explore beyond the shores. I’m sure the birds are happy about that fact and I confess I find some joy in it as well.FullSizeRender_20

We packed the boats and started the 104 mile trip back to Tooele (do you recall how to say it?). We stopped just below Look Out Pass where the old Pony Express station once stood. We pulled out the grill and had chicken, marinated in Caribbean Jerk marinade during the day in the cooler. We added some potato and pasta salad for a delicious lunch/dinner. The sun was out but the shade and slight wind cooled our sun baked skin.

We lounged and enjoyed our lawn chairs for a short spell and watched the few campers emerge from their own secret places in the hills and head back home along the trail. A convey of military vehicles constituted for the only traffic heading back out into the desert.IMG_20150503_161748_299

We made it to Tooele and on to our home in Salt Lake. We were exhausted and once the truck was unpacked, we showered and collapsed.

A night under the stars will impress upon you how small you are. A drive through the desert will enforce the idea of how big this world is. A foray into the wild will arouse the fact that people are not wanted or needed. You become just a part of the scene and not the center piece.

Perspective can be garnered, a remembrance of how unimportant so much around us really is. Except that which we choose to be important.

What do you consider important? Spend your time there.

 

Day 70

Same As It Ever Was

Hey Kids,

I know we all think that we evolve during our lives and get smarter. We learn lessons and go forth and do better.

We want to think we’re a product of our own thinking, of our own learning, and our own experiences.

We don’t learn and we’re just grown-up selves of what we were in our parents’ care.

At least to some degree:

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Tire wear(Note tire wear at 3 years of age and again at 48) 

Day 67

Surlendemain

16eb72d681e90e4153ac5d761c6fc188Hey Kids,

The French have a word for the day after tomorrow, Surlendemain.

The Expression goes: “Never put off till tomorrow that which you can put off until the day after.”

It’s easy to think that there is so much time that it’s OK to put things off. And there is; unless it’s important stuff.

Two people I know have died recently. Both suddenly. Both shockingly. Neither by accidents. Both had people around them that had no idea the last time they spoke with their loved one would be the last time.

Don’t let time rob you of love. Don’t let it rob you of caring and sharing. Don’t let it rob you of company. Don’t let it rob you of doing the things you want to do.

Surlendemain is a perfect time to take out the trash, mow the lawn, or learn French. Today, give someone a hug and tell them you love them.

Day 66

Don’t Be These Guys

Hey Kids,

I find that there are two kinds of people I find really annoying on Social Media: Dumb asses and Gurus.googletire

Dumb asses ask questions to the open forum about something they would know with a simple search and a little time on Google. “Where can I buy a motorcycle tire?” “What’s the difference between a ¾ helmet and a half helmet?” “How far is it from A to B?”

The Guru, or at least the self-proclaimed Gurus, are drawn out by the dumb asses. They are the ones that offer answers that obviously came from spending just a little time on Google and now wish to impart their wisdom for all to see.

Don’t be a dumb ass or Guru on social media. We, the real people, don’t like you.

 

Day 65

Sometimes They Do More Than Just Stare at the Screen

Hey Kids,

You never know what sticks in your head from when you were a kid. Yesterday, I discovered one such sticky memory.

Not feeling too well the past few days, I stuck to the couch and relied on Amazon Prime Video to keep me company. I cruised through the vast array of items available and focused on motorcycle shows. I’m so predictable.maxresdefault

After watching the Fastest Indian, I saw a movie that sounded vaguely familiar, “C.C. and Company”. A 1970 film starring Broadway Joe Namath and Ann Margret.

For whatever reason, the opening scene of walking through the grocery store and fixing his own sandwich cracked me up and I thought, “Wait a minute, I think I’ve seen this.”

I continued to watch and the scenes hinted at recall but I couldn’t quite put my finger on it. And then it happened.

CC gets in a fight over whether he deserves to keep any of his winnings from the motocross race he attempted. He loses the fight and the money but then steals the money back that night and takes off.

For some strange reason, that scene has played in my mind throughout my many years. I remembered it almost perfectly, except that I didn’t remember that it was Joe Namath. I had watched the movie on some week night TV movie, the ones they used to show at 7:00 like on a Tuesday.

The scene, I thought was so unfair. The fact that he couldn’t keep part of what he earned but had to give to others who hadn’t earned it really bothered me. He was willing to share with the gang but wanted to save a little for himself. Maybe buy another dirt bike and make more money. Maybe buy a new chopper. (Which the bikes in the movie all looked so small compared to today’s bikes; but that’s another subject).

I despised the gang leader for demanding it all. I was happy when he stole it back. Actually, as a kid, I didn’t remember exactly how he did steal it back: I must’ve been younger than I should’ve been to watch that movie (he he).

Before this post goes on forever, I believe that scene formed an idea in my head that I learned or had confirmed. You deserve the rewards when you do things beyond what everyone else is willing to do. You earn success and you owe no one for your efforts.

I have always been taught to work hard for what I seek and desire. And I think that learning comes a little beyond a 1970 “B” movie. It came from those around me, from my own experiences, and my own convictions. I just think it’s hilarious that a scene and a movie can stick with me all these years.

And you thought I was just a dumb kid who was trying to avoid his homework.

 

Day 56

Curves Ahead

Hey Kids,

The first of this week, the air turned cold on a strong front that moved in. Car and semi’s crashed and closed down the Interstate, trees blew over, roofs were ripped from their buildings, and snow fell; in some places in large amounts.curves-ahead-sign-225x300

Today, the sun is out, the forecast is in the 70’s and apart from the items damaged from the storm, there is no indication that a winter type storm hit just a few days ago.

It’s similar how our lives go.

 

Day 55

What Can It Hurt?

Hey Kids,

We didn’t have to.

No one would’ve known any different.be-kind

It took extra time.

It took a little gas.

We knew it wasn’t so much for us as it was for him.

But my brother and I did a little detour today on our motorcycle ride and visited an uncle who hasn’t been in the best of health. We spent a whole 15 minutes but he seemed to enjoy the idea that we would just drop by and say hi.

Why not take the opportunities to be kind to others people and make them feel good?

I promise, you’ll feel better too.

 

Day 54